Have you ever woken up feeling exhausted?
After a couple of google searches, you discover that it’s either lack of quality of sleep or not getting enough hours of sleep that’s causing you to wake up feeling this way. Good news is there are solutions for lack of quality sleep and not getting enough hours of sleep.
What is harder however is actually doing the work, breaking those bad habits that keep you up at night and forming good ones.
I was depressed about the state I was in before setting up a morning routine.
I remember going to sleep most nights feeling tired, but instead of actually sleeping I would grab my phone and browse the internet, go to social media and reply to text messages.
Was it the best thing to do at that time?
No, in fact, I would regret it the very next morning.
I would wake up feeling not only tired but frantic that I missed fajr. I didn’t want the day start, I needed an extra hour or two of sleep. I did not want to deal with the nappies, bottles, dishes, and laundry. I didn’t want to get out of bed but I had to. I had two under 2.
My days were not productive, there was no time to do anything except take care of the kids and keep up with the chores. Sometime in between losing my patience and folding laundry, I’d promise myself that tomorrow will be a better Insha Allah. I will wake up energetic, excited and have a really productive day. I will wake up on time for Fajr, exercise and plan my day.
This was my reality, my story. I did the same thing over and over again until I felt sick. I couldn’t deal with yet another day of feeling guilty and letting myself down for breaking my own promises.
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Unknown
1. Go sleep early and try to get 8 hours of sleep.
2. No phone, laptop or iPad in bed.
Things already looked promising.
I started with getting a quality of sleep and aim for 6-8 hours of sleep. But sadly I still had no morning routine and eventually, I felt that all my efforts were going to waste because I was going back to sleep after Fajr.
The Prophet (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) asked for the morning to be a blessed time for his ummah and going back to sleep after fajr was just not what I would call productive or seizing the day.
Back to the drawing board, again I had to start with simplicity in mind that’s because I am not one to be consistent if things are complicated or overwhelming.
when you are starting off is that you have a starting point. You can eventually add to it as the kids get older.
I have created a freebie printable for you to print and design your own Simple Morning routine (sign up by providing your email below and it will be send to you). It’s a checklist that you can completely customize to your own needs.I hope you enjoy using it and remember you don’t have to do everything all at ones. Be flexible and consistent.
Do you have a morning routine? Share your tips for developing a morning routine below.
The habit of Intention
I stopped watching TV and this is what happened
Muslimah Guide to Morning Routine
3 ways to Find Joy in the Everyday Things
30 Day Challenge: Healthy Sleeping Habits
Homeschooling Success depends on 3 Ingredients
Spiritual Habits to Develop in just 10 minutes a day
Interview with Dr Gemma Elizabeth of Our Muslim Homeschool
Please log in again. The login page will open in a new tab. After logging in you can close it and return to this page.
I love the last one – to get dressed. I find that my clothes influence my productivity a lot too 🙂
Awesome, I feel the same way. X
Salamu alaikum sis
May Allah reward you! You echo soo much of goes on in my head. I pray I can benefit and better myself.
Wa alaikum salaam warahmatullah, Ameen.
Wa fiiki baarak sis. I pray we can all better ourselves so we can serve Allah, our families and communities better insha aallah.